<p>Any tips for my mom being on my case about not working hard enough, I don't think she gets that I'm mature enough to work hard in high school and figure out where <em>I</em> want to go to college which may not be HYP? Like if I don't get into a good school, it's my problem not hers. Anyway, wherever I end up, I'm sure I'll be fine right?</p>
<p>superstarlala,</p>
<p>You are absolutely right. YOU will attend college, not your mom. And a “good” school is the one 1) you get into 2) you are challenged by 3) your parents can afford. :)</p>
<p>My daughter – sitting at my side – says MOM how come you say that to her, not me? </p>
<p>Because as a parent, I can say with certainty, we love you so much. We know you are capable of so much. We worry about your finding your way in this crazy world. We hate to see you upset, or frustrated, or not realizing your potential. </p>
<p>Be patient superstarlala. Your mom may be (like me) anxious because our superstars are growing up (and away?) from us. We know you are superstars, but will everyone else appreciate you for the wonderful being your mom knows that you are?</p>
<p>And, again, we see your amazing achievements over the years, and we want you to succeed. Always.</p>
<p>If you let your mom help you you will have the best ally possible. Really.</p>
<p>It will take a lot of patience and maturity on your part. I know, my daughter tells me so!</p>