You see it all on tours. This is one reason why I like to be mixed in with families rather than get a private tour (which some schools offer when they learn I’m a counselor). Waiting on the admissions office porch a couple of years ago, I saw a mom tell her 17-year-old daughter to come and sit on her lap. The daughter was easily 50 pounds bigger than mom, who wasn’t tiny, but she obediently went and perched on mom’s knees till the tour started. It was…memorable.