<p>Why do people keep focusing and using the words "top" "elite" "selective"...</p>
<p>Kids who get rejected from "lesser" schools are just as disappointed, and often even more so</p>
<p>Imagine you don't get into what others percieve as a "safety"</p>
<p>If you are rejected from an Ivy, there is a built in numbers game</p>
<p>Yet it seems people think it would be rougher for the Ivy applicants to handle than just "regular" kids</p>
<p>That is snobbery at the utmost</p>