<p>Cardinal Fang, we HAVE a terrific realtor!I walked into the hotest place in town and found a pleasant-looking very very intelligent real estate agent with years of experience in the Hudson Vallly WE did ALL the work this morning Saturday. My mother was smart, informed, and very cooperative. The for sale sign goes in front of the house and the listing goes on the internet on Monday. When I find it, I will post it for anyone who might be interested. BTW (“realtor talk but I believe her)” my mother’s immaculate significant house adjoining the town park is a very desirable location when houses priced at $250,00 are selling. She said she sold one last week.</p>
<p>Returning to the topic of last Fridays AL visit: When I told the AL director about my mother’s disappointment in the salad–this intelligent, experienced woman said–she’s afraid. Yep. But she added, we do have guests who want to come back for a second meal;she said without hesitation, I will talk to our chef on Tuesday she said, , and if your mother wants a hot meal (she does) he will recommend a lunch or dinner on a day or evening later this week)</p>
<p>To quote HI MOM “It is unanimous!” This is the group’s last chance to make me think, and thik STRONGLY upon a difficult turning pont. . Weell, this Al place is merely ten minutes away. If she still rejects the place after her second hot meal, she has run out of choices and will move to eitiher Maplewood in Danbury (we still have our credit card number being held there) or this nearby place, whether or not she likes the second mel=al. take your pick. Or go yo Reno to my sister. Or be put in the hands of NY State elder Protection care.</p>
<p>Curiously, her whole life my mother, who was always felt fed and nourished since an infant, talks about nothing but food, shopping lists, frequent trips to the grocery store, favorite childhood treats, her mother’s excellent cooking . If I talk to her in the morning, you cannot imagine the martyrdom I go through listening to what she had for breakfast…and of course it is much worse after dinner. Since Barbara’s arrival I have been calling much less, significantly much less–i’m sure she can tell–to listen to the detalls about her pork chops. I have gotten veryused to putting the speaker hone on speaker phone and doing the laundry and dishes while she dissect her luncheon meats, cheese, rye bred, tomato juice fruit salad __I AM NOT KIDDING> And After 40 or so minutes I turn the speaker phone off. </p>
<p>So, you know, as a group I have listenned to your collective wisdom all along and the BIG breakthrough was getting to my mother with an absolute, “undaughtlerly '“unllovingly” ultimatum” to enter AL. With your nothing short of mind-exanding advice you have helped, and gotten FAR ampng the path.</p>
<p>Travlelnut, I just want to say that I read your trenchant note carefully and deeply, and tp my best judgment, the place nearby would be best for her. </p>
<p>I certainly do feel I have that ultimatum and in a a matter of weeks it will carry through.</p>
<p>So I will bow to your collective wisdom, buy still I will take my my mother to a second meal. but remember–it this fails I get ALL MY SUPPORTERS to’'MDs, SWss, PCP, to back me up. </p>
<p>BTW’ You might have missed it that my sister communicated with me via email few weeks ago. A few friendly words. We exchanged friendly but not in indepth information-she clearly doesn’t it. Maybe two mails. Now silence again.</p>