<p>Could it be that your parents have done a lot of research on this and have compiled a list of 5 colleges that fit into what they may feel is best for your situation? In other words, maybe these five colleges have decent academic reputations, with locations that are manageable from your home, and AFFORDABLE. Compromise with them. Explain to them that you will apply to the 5 colleges that they suggested (hopefully one of them is to your liking). Then explain to them that you would like to apply to 2 reaches of your choice with the understanding that if you do get in and their financial/merit package doesn’t come close to the other 5 colleges, then you will drop the subject. On the other hand, if you do get accepted to one or two of your reaches AND their financial/merit package comes in close to the other 5 colleges, get a promise from your parents that they will re-evaluate and give equal consideration to those schools.</p>