I’m stealing this discussion topic…and making it my own as my B/G twins just started Junior Year and I am now in the throws of SATs/ACTs and beginning “true” college search for my “polar opposite” twins!
With appreciation to @MotherOfDragons and @fwtxmom for their 2018 and 2019 threads!!
“This is not a chance thread for students. It is for parents of kids roughly in the B to B+ range with any range of test scores. Of course, all parents are welcome, but it is not meant for the top of the line, applying to Ivies sorts of dilemmas. Advice from parents of other years is definitely appreciated!”
Below is my spin on previous threads…
Topic 1: SAT/ACT Testing Dates
Based on their readiness and availability for prep classes I’ve decided to have them take their first SAT in the Spring - March 9 test date for us. When should I aim for retesting? Is May too soon? Or should I wait until August? D20 may do better on the ACT but that is not pushed as hard at their school so I may just have her take the ACT in June or July. That leaves the fall of senior year open to retake ACT and/or SAT.
Topic 2: SAT Subject Testing – Yes/No?
How important is the SAT Subject Testing? I did some research and it appears as though it depends on where you apply - not all colleges require or even recommend this. Seems it is mainly Ivys and upper tier schools that really want this - which is not where we are looking.
Topic 3: SAT/ACT Prep Classes & Workbooks
I am checking on “in person/classroom style” prep classes (in person would work better especially for my D20) – have narrowed it down to either Georgetown Learning Center or Princeton Review – based on budget and class schedules. Any thoughts or other recommendations? I also plan on getting some Workbooks for them to begin review/study now…any recommendations?
The above are my current most pressing topics but am copying and pasting below topics from previous threads as they are just around the corner for me.
Topic 4: School Visits & Casting WIDE nets
So - when do we start truly visiting colleges? Should I plan on using Winter/Spring Break of Junior year for college visits? Should these be formal (registered through the school and making contact with the school) visits? Or is this too soon?
Topic 5: Fit & LOVING ALL OUR SCHOOLS
D20 is my bright, responsible and “A” student…if grading were based on effort. But she has her challenges – currently on an IEP with ADHD/Inattentive Type + General Anxiety and working memory issues. So we are being realistic yet still remaining open to some “reach” schools because well, you just don’t know…she just got a PT job working retail at the local mall and has regular babysitting gigs. She also earned the coveted Girl Scout Gold Award this past summer! I want her to “reach” for where she wants to really go, but also have some realistic options/safeties and we’ve even discussed and she is open to Community College for the Guaranteed Admissions route should she still really want to go to her “reach” school if she does not get in.
S20 is looking to have turned himself around and focusing more on school - currently taking Honors and 1 AP class with a focus on Computer Science (AP Computer Science Principles and Cyber:CompTech2 A+). If he continues to apply himself he will hopefully be closer to the 3.4-3.8 GPA…but only time will tell.
Topic 6:Possible Financial/Merit aid
We will not qualify for much if any FA (having twins at same time…our EFC comes to about $25K). As for merit aid, I thought we’d never qualify either based on stats, but after reading threads on CC I see that we might just qualify at some schools - yeah! That being said – our budget is $25K (tuition/room & board) or less per kid with student loans being required if over that. Therefore we have been sticking primarily to all in-state public schools (Virginia) – but I’ve heard from friends that there are some OOS schools where you could actually end up paying only about $25K so I’ll be looking at a few OOS options as well maybe.
Topic 7: Books to assist our quest of the perfect school for our children.
Topic 8: Requesting LOR’s before school gets out
And…finally…as we get close to and into senior year:
Topic 9: Applications (EA vs. ED vs. RD), to disclose or not disclose LD, essay prompts, etc.
Topic 10: Auditions (music, dance, theatre) (does not apply to my but left it in the thread for others)
Topic 11: Senior year visits & overnights
Topic 12: The Waiting Game of acceptances
Topic 13: Reviewing award letters
Topic 14: Committing and sending in that check!