<p>NM,
I hear ya about the ‘laundry piles’ all over the floor!</p>
<p>D & S have both been relegated to doing their own laundry since they complained about having to sort their dirty laundry, & put away their clean, folded laundry (into <em>gasp!</em> drawers!). Generally there are assorted piles of supposedly clean ‘to be put away soon’ (and I’m sure mixed with dirty in my S’s case) clothes all over their rooms…all I can say, is future room mate…I’m sorry, but I really did try!!</p>
<p>Mom of an only child heading off to Marquette in the fall in the footsteps of his stepdad who is an alum…one of the main reasons S resisted the great choice!</p>
<p>Just finished the sappy graduation the school requires. Thanks to someone’s suggest on the 09 thread I scanned in some pictures…the first three pages of the letter were mostly pictures, then on the last page I added more random thoughts than sentimental words.</p>
<p>Cali-mom
I too apologize to S’s future roommate, but on his housing request he did get to list that he keeps his room “more casual” than “generally tidy” - I laughed at these descriptions</p>
<p>My S’s future roommate(s) are in for a surprise - he likes to go to bed about daylight and wake up about sunset, computer/music/TV on all at the same time, and whatever comes off his body stays where it lands. I’ve tried, truly…and his school has no roommate survey. ;)</p>
<p>Wow, we’ve already graduated! I am a Ca. mom to a daughter going off to UC Berkeley in August. Go Bears! The decision making for her was torture but she and we are thrilled with the decision. I also have a son who spent a chunk of time at UC Santa Cruz not quite finishing, but now working in sales.</p>
<p>oregon101, my son will take a freshman seminar at Amherst and the teacher he thinks he will get sends out reading and assignments over the summer – you apparently have an email debate. </p>
<p>I see there are two Smith parents on this new site (Northernwoods and Plantmom) so we’re virtual neighbors.</p>
<p>My son has truly weird neurology and cannot think with music playing. He likes music but really cannot think. How to put that in the roommate survey? I’m pretty sure he’ll have one. If not, he’ll have to write a letter.</p>
<h1>theorymom, on neatness, “more casual?” Do they have a category beyond that like “room at home is like front yard in Appalachia with old cars stored for parts” or “beware the laundry mountains.” He comes by it honestly. I think I was probably like that as a kid. One of my freshman year roommates really didn’t like me – he had problems and left school for a while – and while part of it was insecurity (I think he wanted to be the academic star in our group and I was at least a year or two younger than everyone else and doing very well) – part of it was that he was painfully anal compulsive and I was the opposite. My father, a brilliant theoretical physicist, had three offices that were so full of paper that you had to walk in a trail to the desk chair and that the office was once declared a safety hazard (beware the falling stacks of paper from the tops of the cabinets). I would be that way except that I hire an executive assistant to make sure things get put away. And, she comes to my home office every once in a while to excavate.</h1>
<p>woody, I also apparently came home from college with a toxic duffel bag – jeans that would stand up of their own accord. I went to school an hour from home and my son is 1 hour and 20 minutes (if I’m driving; longer if my wife is). So, we may get the same thing.</p>
<p>Congratulations on the no-longer-never-ending quest for the holy prom dress. </p>
<p>My daughter had her “formal” on Saturday night and it wasn’t “lame” this year, though everybody was “grinding” against everyone else and everyone was very sweaty. Sounds bad to me, but OK. My daughter is 5’8" and was wearing shoes that added more than two inches of platform plus more for the heel. Given a high waist, it looked like 5 feet of legs.</p>
<p>night owl here too oregon. missed the series years ago–too much life going on back then to have caught it, so now I watch the reruns – as a bedtime ritual.</p>
<p>Can’t believe how busy you all have been while I was preoccupied with real life. </p>
<p>If we are still allowed to talk about HS, S made it through AP Calc and is cautiously optimistic. Three more to go. The last Comedy Sports event is tomorrow night and he has given me permission to attend.</p>
<p>I’m really not prepared to think about dorm shopping. Can’t I get him a Lion King backpack and some chunky crayons and start over with Kindergarten?</p>
<p>So glad people took the suggestion to introduce: I am a mom of 3 boys. S1 is a soph at Colgate, computer science major, but may be intersted in film editing. S2 ('09/'13) is the jazz drum boy headed off to Oberlin Conservatory. S3 is a freshman in HS, plays bball and soccer (thank goodness) as his first love seems to be world of warcraft on the internet…</p>
<p>We are Willamette grads, but live near Lewis & Clark and Reed, so we like people around here to look at all 3! </p>
<p>Hmom, any Scripps news? We had a good friend get off the Skidmore waitlist yesterday, and her daughter is thrilled. Hope the trickle down affect helps everyone here.</p>
<p>well shawbridge - I think you may have convinced me to order the laundry service for the first year - that or send at least 3 months worth of clothing, bedding, socks and underwear and expect to spend Christmas doing laundry
Son’s room simulates the Appalachian front yard. I have learned to shut the door.</p>