<p>We are at the point where our kids just need to execute. I’ve done a ton of legwork on the colleges, what might be suited to them, etc. We have the added roadblock of sending twins to college at the same time, both of which are B students. It’s tough, because I had a 4.02 weighted GPA in HS and took the ACT once and got a 29, plenty good enough for the Big Ten schools I was looking at back then. Unfortunately, I’m not dealing with that with my sons.</p>
<p>We are visiting UWSP and Northern Michigan this March, and I think that’s going to be it. We’ve already visited Murray State, Mississippi State, Bowling Green and SIU-C. There are other schools I would love to visit but they are either too expensive (Ohio U, Iowa, Bradley, Kansas State), or they are academically too much of a stretch (Truman State, Cincinnati DAAP, SUNY-ESF). One of the twins wants to be within a day’s drive of home. The other doesn’t care, but I think that would change when reality hit. I think everything will get much clearer after these March visits. At the end of the day, they need to be the ones to study for tests, get their homework done, etc. If they do that well enough, they’ll get into the schools on our list. If they don’t, it’s their fault, and they can get their last choice or go to COD. </p>
<p>They are both taking the ACT prep course, but it was only offered 2nd semester, so it just started. The Feb 8th test will probably not be a great result, but I want them to feel what it’s like and get that under their belts. They’ll do much better in April, and I think having taken it in Feb will help them.</p>
<p>Their advisor seems to think that as long as the GPA stays at 3.0+, and get the ACT scores they are progessing to get, they’ll be fine. But they need to do the work. Is anyone else having a really hard time backing off their kids? I feel I am always on them to get stuff done, checking their grades online, reminding them they have a test, etc. Trying really hard to stop, but it’s soooo hard.</p>