<p>We did. We were all “bright eyed and bushy tailed” with our first and would have paid anything and everything for him to go where he chose to go. </p>
<p>We now have a cap on what we can contribute. Still more than we can comfortably do, but it basically rules out any of the most expensive private schools unless they come up with merit awards or the student commutes to one and makes up the slack as well.</p>