Parents who criticize late DX ADHD kids. Ask your Questions here.

Every thread on here about or by someone with ADHD inevitably has a parent or two or three, or more, who just don’t understand why said kid is ‘blaming’ their ADHD.

I find it frustrating when I ask a question and get no real responses and a bunch of criticism instead, so I think it’s better for all of us, if you ask “why…” Here instead. Maybe I won’t change your mind, maybe I will. At least we can agree to disagree, and maybe you won’t go around stressing out already really stressed out kids.
Because trust me, we’re mostly really stressed out, and critiquing us when we ask for help isn’t going to get quality responses (in general)