<p>My theory is that the OP’s dad is afraid to start on the wrong foot, and face a series of requests to come home. He is probably right that the desire to come home this early might mask a number of negative issues. The fact that there might be free tickets is actually not a good thing, if his daughter knows she can ask for such tickets on a whim. The danger is that a short trip might exacerbate the “problems” rather than solve them. </p>
<p>I’d say that there are two options: </p>
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<li><p>Talk to your dad at length and tell that you would love to come home, but understand his position … but ask him clearly why he would prefer you to stay in school. Share with him that this is worrisome to you.</p></li>
<li><p>Talk directly to your SM, and tell her you miss HER! Tell her there a few things you’d like to talk about. Appeal to her parental instincts. </p></li>
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<p>PS I can see why it could be hard for a Texan to be in Steelersville. :)</p>