This Friday I am hosting a party at my apartment. I invited a couple of people because my apartment is small and I wanted the gathering to be chill and not like a giant rave. Most of the invitees are girls, but I did invite two boys because they are friends of my roommate(who is also invited) and we get along fine. The problem is that one of my very good friends is coming and I accidentally invited her boyfriend ( I asked my friend a question about the party in front of him without thinking and he said “What party?” and I basically had to invite him, i thought he would be working but he isn’t). Her boyfriend is nice enough but he can be a little too much sometimes. Another girl coming feels really uncomfortable around him and was kind of upset that he was coming. Honestly, I sort of wish he wasn’t coming because sometimes he can get on my nerves. Should I un-invite him or suck it up? And if I do un-invite him how should I do it? ( I usually see my friend more than I see him)
IMO you can’t un-invite him now. In the scheme of life this is a very small thing. Have the party and if you don’t enjoy his company consider making it a “girls night” next time you host a get together.
I agree with happy1 you really can’t un-invite him. But, I think it would be in your best interest to figure out what exactly it is that makes your friend feel uncomfortable around him. Is this a past issue or something that was said? If you know a little bit more about the problem you can help curb that issue throughout the party and you can hopefully survive this one night without being too annoyed or uncomfortable.
It depends on just why your female friends are uncomfortable around him. Is he creepy when he gets drunk? I had a couple male friends who just don’t seem to respect women when they’re drunk, and as a result I don’t invite them when I go out to bars or have parties.