<p>It's not ridiculous at all. Obviously, your parents can't trust you, and they've got the right to do what they think they need to do to keep you from screwing yourself over completely. Here's an idea. Be honest and don't do drugs?</p>
<p>Don't kncok it till you've tried it... and i've tried it my friends, Ill never smoke weed with will again..</p>
<p>Sorry I randomly break out into song. But yea, how many of you here who are telling everyone how horrible weed and drinking (obviously if you are under 21) have tried it. Sorry, but its just each to his own, if blawn wants to do it let her (I assume). Just answer her question then get on with your life, she didn't ask you to get all preachy on her... ugg some of you guys remind me of this annoying guy in my class...</p>
<p>Better preachy than silent.</p>
<p>this annoying guy in my class who thinks he'd right about everything, when being right is only a matter of opinion. Yes, maybe there are laws, but morally, a person may stand where ever they wish</p>
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<p>Thanks, dad...</p>
<p>blawned, it probably wasn't a good idea coming to a place where the average SAT is 2200 to ask for help about parties.</p>
<p>I, however, completely understand your sentiments in finding relief when going out. I know that I was always at a loss without it because it helps keep your life in balance. I don't suggest smoking though, it truly is just a stupid thing to do.</p>
<p>Now I don't know what your relationship is with your parents, but in my case, if my parents said that I can't go out I'd just think up some lame excuse, ie... "I work hard, I'm doing well in school, and im a teenager, let me have my fun". If they refuse, I simply take a stance and go out anyways. They soon realised that there was nothing they could do. If you can get over that hump you should be set in terms of ur folks letting u go out. </p>
<p>With regards to drinking, my parents only found out I drink at my Year 12 ball, and yet I have been drinking for over 2 and a half years now. When the issue came up, I strongly refuted that I only have one of two beers a night, and that anymore is way to much. It might even help asking them to buy u 1 bacardi breezer ur sumthing and say thats ur drink for the night, and just get some more off ur mates once u go out. That way they think that ur limiting urself, when rather youare doing as u please. Agreeing with their talks helps too - just try your hardest to make it seem like you drink barely anything, i guarantee u will get their trust after a while. if u end up being p|ssed at the end of the night, I definately suggest staying the nights place with a friend, or try and sober up as much as u can in the last half hour with water so that u can put on a straight face in the car.</p>
<p>oh and, dont do drugs. stupid very stupid, basically all of my mates have done weed, most do it reguarly when going out, and a few have moved onto pills in the past year. im basically one of the only ones who never does them, and i can tell u im better off for it.</p>
<p>yeah, i have never tried any drugs and i really don't want to.
i occasionally smoke a cig when i am drunk, but that is nothing really. </p>
<p>i would try the whole...."you can't control me thing"...but it would only work on my mom. prom is coming up, and my parents are trying their hardest to stop me from going out...but that just isn't going to happen.</p>
<p>yeah if it just one smoke once in a while when ur drunk i can undertand that. have a good time at ur prom</p>
<p>Let em know youre going out, but dont tell em what kind of party it is. Like its a simple safe, no drugs or drinking little get together. Theyll buy it. Works for me </p>
<p>smokers. ew.</p>