Costs before financial aid and scholarships:
PSU Erie: $36k + travel
PSU University Park: $49k + travel
PSU 2+2 total: $170k + travel
VT: $41k + travel
VT 4 years total: $164k + travel
CA CC commuter: $8k approx
CA CC living at school: $18k approx
CSU: $28k approx
CA CC commuter 2 years + CSU 2 years = $72k
CA CC living at school 2 years + CSU 2 years = $92k
CSU 4 years total = $112k
UC: $34k approx
CA CC commuter 2 years + UC 2 years = $84k
CA CC living at school 2 years + UC 2 years = $104k
UC 4 years total = $136k
Are all of the above affordable to you and your parents without any loans beyond the federal direct loans ($5,500 first year, increasing slightly later years)?
The PSU 2+2 plan looks like the most expensive for an experience similar to that of starting at a CA CC and then transferring to a CSU or UC. That is probably not what you want.
VT would give you more of the “college experience” that you seem to want, but would be more expensive than any possible California option.