<p>Yes it is getting ridiculous, but I made no judgments. I simply pointed out some facts. I never stated that one of these people was not gms5287’s daughter. You can estimate for yourself the probability of a college junior having a daughter who plays clarinet in the NY Phil after having had a sex change operation. By the way, why would you still call him a daughter rather than a son afterwards? I have never before considered the etiquette of such a situation but it seems to me that it could be seen as judgmental to continue to call that person “daughter” rather than “son”, almost as if the parent were trying to deny that the operation ever happened.</p>