<p>My kids have done the same, Dungareedoll. Three jobs,and my son was told that we could only pay so much for college, so he took the privates with no merit right off the table. Hurt me terribly, as I really wanted to say, “honey, just pick the school you like best and we’ll make it work.” But couldn’t do it. </p>
<p>But where is the money coming from so that he could afford a private school full price if not from me? From the family making less? If it makes you feel any better, the interest rates for the subsidized Staffords are going to go up to the unsubsidized rates this year if Congress doesn’t renew that subsidy. It’s not as though any of us are going to get more, but just those who make less, get less, unless some major reconfigurations are done.</p>
<p>It’s the opinion of many that the prices have been rising, in part or in many cases, in whole, because of the federal backing of the loans which make it possible for students and parents to borrow so much. I don’t think any number of these schools could ask what they are in costs without those loans and in that sense ANYONE who is borrowing is subsidized with the subsidy going right on over tho the colleges who have their mouths firmly latched on the federal teat. We just give it the squeeze. </p>
<p>For my son it was an option to take the loans or not. He could have gone to a local school, private even for free, if he commuted and if worked part time, he could have had his car and been flush with the bucks. Got a merit award for the amount. His brothers got the same from a local state/city school. But they wanted the sleepaway experience. Again, we could have paid for the state school in full with sleepaway option included, or a good private school if they commuted. One of mine did take the state option. But an OOS public meant, not only our contribution, but some money from him too. Even so with what he saved and made and could make during the year, he was able to just take some loans and is already planning on paying them back. But he is learning how it feels to be squeezed and how unforeseen things can make the best of plans on paper go awry as he wasn’t going to borrow at all. But the choices are there, and now that local commuting option is looked at with a whole different set of eyes.</p>
<p>But where to draw the lines where people should pay and get subsidized and get full aid? At $25K a year, no way a family can squeeze out the money to pay for any college. A hundred bucks is a lot for families there. And they still don’t get an auto zero EFC for a full PELL! Bring the level up to $50k and what should a similar family pay? How about at $100K? The money’s done run out by then. </p>
<p>Anyone who has the income and assets by the way, can get rid of that impediment and can try getting all of those benefits out there. I have no desire to do that, thank you. I’ll keep what I have and deal with the system at hand. But really, is that what you would recommend some to do? Ask for a pay cut for that first financial aid year and thereafter, and donate ones assets to the level one thinks one can get the best financial aid deal? I don’t think so.</p>