<p>I have to chime in here, and please don’t interpret my post as ■■■■■■■■ or thread-hijacking. I’m just looking to give an objective account of my own experience at UChicago and how it differed from the sentiments echoed in this thread.</p>
<p>First of all, OP, I’m glad you’re having a great time at the UofC so far and I sincerely hope that you’re able to maintain this positive attitude throughout your time here. Let me say, however, that the OP echoes what I’ve heard many many “typical” UChicago students say, and that based on what he/she has said, the OP meshes pretty well (even very well) with the climate here at the UofC. Prospective students: if you’ve done a bit of research and have reservations about whether or not you are true UofC-material (not based on intellect, but on your hobbies and social desires), please take the OP’s remarks with many grains of salt.</p>
<p>I’m a current fourth-year at the University of Chicago and I have had a drastically different experience than most people on this forum. Granted, people who post on CC self-select and will generally have a favorable opinion of whatever the subject may be (why else would they write up long threads, hoping to convince prospective students to consider their respective universities?), I do feel that this board in particular is severely lacking in opinions from people who think of themselves as very normal but happened to come across a few extra IQ points in the beginning.</p>
<p>My time at the UofC has been pretty miserable. I filled out transfer applications – twice, but for some reason I never had it in me to leave. No, this isn’t because I’ve struggled academically (I have a 3.95 overall, 4.0 in my major, and will probably graduate as a Marshal in the Spring), but I have struggled socially. I came to the UofC out of insecurity and lack of knowledge - neither of my parents went to college, so I didn’t know much about the process and basically just applied to top 10 with a few safety schools. This was clearly my mistake as I did not do any research on the UofC before coming here…I never visited, I never went on this site, I hardly even went to uchicago.edu to see what this place was all about. Whenever I received one of those pamphlets during the summer that wanted to inculcate me with how “quirky” the student body is here, I paid little attention. Turns out they weren’t lying, and this became very clear to me as soon as I set foot on this campus.</p>
<p>People who love BJ and Breck (and I speak from experience here, having lived in one of these dorms my first-year) are representative of typical UChicago students. If you aren’t completely sure that you’re going to fit in at UChicago, you will probably not have a good time here. That, in my opinion, is the bottom line. If you read the OP’s post (again, no offense to the OP, just wanting to add my $0.02) and think “Man, this sounds really awesome”, but you’re not the type to play Risk on Friday nights and talk about Marx at the dinner table, you’re walking into something that will probably make you unhappy for four years. Please do as much research as possible before coming to the University of Chicago.</p>
<p>The people are nice, but they are only nice if you reciprocate UChicago to them. If you play a sport or join a fraternity, you WILL be resented by the overwhelming majority of the student body. If you talk about girls (or guys, if you’re a female) at the dinner table instead of literature, people WILL judge you and they won’t want to talk to you anymore. People here NEVER smile – everyone walks staring at the ground all the time. When you run into people on campus that are in your classes, they’ll turn their heads in order to avoid talking to you because they are so socially awkward. The OP is having a great time because he or she fits in – people are receptive toward the OP and the OP feels “at home” with the folks at this school. Obviously, he or she is going to think everyone here is nice and that this is paradise. If you have any reservations about whether or not you’ll really “fit in”, I would strongly urge you to do more research and/or look elsewhere to spend four INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT years of your life when it comes to developing as an adult. I really wish I could look back at my college experience five years down the road and think that it was the greatest time in my life, but I’m 100% certain that this will not happen because I never was able to find my niche on this campus.</p>
<p>OP and other people on CC, props to you for finding your niche and I’m glad you all are happy with your college decisions.</p>