<p>Soo, I was curious, which is the best (and worst) ways for asking someone out? As the OP, I'll start off by saying I think asking someone out by phone is the worst of the three (bad experiences..hang ups...) while, what I would think is the best, asking in person, is not really... just because it pressures the person. </p>
<p>So, what do you guys think? ^_^</p>
<p>umm.... asking out is best in person but breaking up is best on aim</p>
<p>OMG asking someone out in person is the best. If they say yes, it'll be all cute when you hug and crap. And everyone'll go "Awwww!" Unless you're alone.</p>
<p>omg never break up with someone on aim. thats so impersonal and cowardly. i think you should ask somewhat out in person... really its the only way.</p>
<p>come on on aim??? do it person, be a man ( or woman lol)</p>
<p>i think no matter whether you're asking someone out or breaking up, it should be done face to face, in person..... phone isnt as good because you miss out on facial expression lol, and AIM is just fake...we live in a real world, lets be real....if you can talk to someone why are telling them over IM...thats just plain cowardly</p>
<p>and that was my $0.02
lol</p>
<p>best way of asking someone out (or getting asked out) is in person, definitely!!
asking online is just cheap. on the phone is better because at least it's their own voice, but phone isn't as good as in person.</p>
<p>my first date-
asked by phone. we never really broke up but we just stopped hanging out together so yeah i assume we broke up.</p>
<p>I'm kinda traumatized from calling a girl in Soph and getting hung up on... so I don't care if Phone is good or bad... I can't stand calling girls to ask them out.</p>
<p>At the end of Junior year (the last time I attempted asking anyone I liked out :-p) , I asked a girl I had a big crush on in person. She said yes, but that yes turned into 'it was so sudden, and I didnt want to be mean..' kinda thing...</p>
<p>Soo.. I am at a loss for what is better. I would think that going up to the person is the best option, but from past experiences I dunno anymore. From what a friend told me, talking online is a 'safe' option because the person being asked hows time to think and respond (or click block).... soo yea, thats where I stand.</p>
<p>Everything in person.</p>
<p>i agree, sex is definitely better in person. phone comes next..</p>
<p>...sorry, i read all those posts about sexing CC threads and i just coudln't resist hahaha</p>
<p>sex is so much better in person!!!! i refuse to have phone sex, cuz it is so unsatisfying (Jk).</p>
<p>neither. telepathy.</p>
<p>I'm thinking the best way to ask them out is by burning it into their lawn. In all seriousness, no one should matter so much to you, before you're even going out with them, that you don't have the guts to ask them out in person. Breaking up, if you're dumping them or it's mutual, then again, have the guts to do it in person. If they're dumping you...I don't know. I think that'd probably be the least of your problems at that point in time.</p>
<p>Only in person. Anything else is slap-in-the-face worthy.</p>
<p>face to face</p>
<p>aim is always bad for these types of things.
If a guy broke up with me on aim, I would probably leave a flaming voicemail on his phone.</p>
<p>face to face is best, though, for asking someone out, phone isn't terrible.</p>