<p>Our son got his MCAT scores this week, and, while very pleased with the results, seems to be taking a giant step away from applying to med. school. We've never pressured him to apply, but are not sure what is going on in his mind right now. I'd appreciate your thoughts. </p>
<p>Background: He is very smart, very social, delightful to be around. Involved in several activities on campus, always has managed his classes and studying so that he could keep an active social life, attend football and basketball games, etc. He's always easily maintained high grades through high school and college. I think his GPA is somewhere around a 3.85 right now. He had a 4.0 this last semester, and has had a few A- and one B in three years of college. He self studied for a couple of weeks this spring before the June MCATs. He got a 35. His major is biology, with minors in music and business (also has a minor in chemistry due to the premed courses, but can only declare two minors). </p>
<p>He has traveled a reasonable amount with us, and has spent part of the last three summers in Africa. One summer he went on a three week university sponsored trip (business) to South Africa. Last summer he traveled to a clinic that is owned and operated by the med school affiliated with his university to start a project to help the clinic better utilize its resources and equipment. It was a business/finance project that the clinic directors wanted done. This summer he is back at the same clinic finishing that project and also working on a major (medical) research project for the medical school/clinic. </p>
<p>Our family background includes a large number of physicians, so we all know the good, the bad and the ugly of the profession. (His dad, an uncle, both grandfathers, a grand uncle and one great grandfather are/were physicians.) We have gone out of our way to assure him that we are fine with whatever job or profession he wants to pursue. </p>
<p>He is also headstrong and prone to being a bit of an airhead. This summer he is in the middle of rabies treatment (He "met" an unknown dog while on a run (alone! Arg!) in the African countryside), and is on day five of Cipro due to... Ahem... Getting to know the waterborn bacteria of a third world country up close and personal when he and a group of med students didn't plan enough for their water needs while climbing a mountain.</p>
<p>So his facetime call home yeaterday to tell us that 1. He was very happy with his MCAT scores, and 2. He had an epiphany while throwing up and might want to just take a year off after he graduates next spring was both unexpected and expected at the same time. </p>
<p>He's always been of the "I'm not going to declare anything until I've made up my own mind" mindset. Last winter he asked what I would think if he wanted to take a year off after college, and I said that it would depend what his plans were. A year off to travel around the world on our dollar...no. A year off to get a job, or do research, or to do something with a purpose.... Fine. A year to work for awhile to fund his own travels.... Even better.</p>
<p>At one time he said his dream job would be to be Michael Creighton (spelling? the author), to travel the world, and then write scientific based novels. More recently he said he'd really like to work for the World Health Organization someday.</p>
<p>We will need to have a more in depth chat with him when he gets home in August (hopefully in one piece) about his post graduation plans. Can he apply to med school and take a gap year? Would it be better to take time off and then apply? His university offers a one year post undergrad fellowship at the African clinic. I believe he is going to tell us that he wants to apply for that fellowship (which would be wonderful, and we would totally support it), but it is a highly competitive spot, and he needs a plan B if he doesn't get it. I'm worried that his plan B will be something like, "I want to run a marathon on every continent this year." a fun plan, but his running shoes would be writing checks he can't cash.</p>
<p>I'd appreciate any suggestions on specific things a kid like this could do (that we don't have to pay for) if he takes a year off. I'd also appreciate any advice generally on talking to my dear son about his future. </p>
<p>Or do I just need to vent here and keep my mouth shut?</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>