<p>I just read emeraldkitys post right after I made the last one. That makes sense, why we are confused. Though it would be good if the OP can clear it up for us. We just want to help. Trust me, we have all made posts we wish we wouldn’t have, or haven’t been clear, or even said absolutely ridiculous things we hope nobody ever reads. Just let us know the real deal, and we can give you the best advice we have.</p>