And this from Wesleyan. They have very limited numbers of admitted international students.
“While spaces in each class for international students seeking financial aid are extremely limited, Wesleyan meets full demonstrated financial need for all admitted students.”
I would argue they are among THE most competitive for admissions in this country because they are both need-blind and meet full need for all international students.
First congratulations to what you have already achieved during your final years of school, and since. Your persistence in your professional ventures, especially in light of difficult family and political circumstances, speaks to your motivation and resilience - something that is clearly in your favor.
Academically, you are a “solid B” student, with which as an American you’d be a welcome applicant to very many great U.S. colleges that foreigners might have never heard of, but that do deliver great education and results.
However, the way education is “funded” in the U.S. (e.g., not enough money for its own residents), as an international applicant you either need to have money, exceptional academic results, or earned a Nobel Peace Prize 
. So I’m afraid, an “honest evaluation” is, that the outlook for studying in the U.S. is not great.
I wonder if your Ukrainian citizenship will give you ways to attend university in other European countries (in addition to Hungary), where you’d NOT be expected to take a full course load to complete within 4 years, but rather can schedule and attend classes as work and money permits, for as long as you need to graduate?
Otherwise, Ростов-на-Дону is a Metropolis with a broad variety of universities and colleges - of course, I don’t know what their entry requirements are or how attendance cost is handled in your country?