<p>kids2smart: You are over-stressing your son’s schedule.<br>
This would really annoy my Junior son. Yes you didn’t go to college, but that doesn’t mean you have to micromanage and “argue” about everything. If your son is bright, he’ll figure it out because the kids in the AP classes talk about the process, as do their teachers and their counselors. </p>
<p>If he’s in a California school, like my children are and were, you’ll see that they do the college info sessions repeatedly for parents (in the evenings, every semester) and they bring in CC and UC admissions counselors often. </p>
<p>Hubbie is an Electrical engineer, daughter just graduated with a degree in EE and SW. Middle daughter still not sure-premed?, and JR son plans on majoring in computer engineering; he has a 2370 on his SAT and is an athlete, so he’s being recruited by many schools.
The high school, as well as their friends, focus on the following items, in this order: UC/ A-G requirements for coursework, ** GPA, SAT scores and EC’s**. </p>
<p>Since my family feels compelled to major in engineering: they all had 4 years of foreign language (Spanish) especially in California, and, at least one AP physics class and one AP Chem class. Tell #1 son to use the UC requirements as a guide. They have them all over the place in the counseling office because these also help with the private universities entrances. The high school also has a written guide, of your high school courses, that tells the students which hs courses are accepted for credit towards the requirements. </p>
<p>NOTE: if your son will be applying to the UC system, his SAT score needs to be high. It’s uber competitive. Do him a favor by not pushing, arguing, and being in his face because this will impact his level of stress and his grades DO MATTER. CHOOSE your battles. </p>
<p>Spend your time working the snack bar at the water polo matches; it will relieve your stress. You will learn more from the other parents there, who have strong academic children in the sport.</p>
<p>At our Athletic Banquets in June, we have found that a large portion of our athletes: kids from swim, water polo, baseball, softball, soccer, track, field hockey, lacross, volleyball etc. get full athletic rides to their schools. We’ve had students from our tennis teams get full rides to their universities, but they are also good students. More money is awarded to the athletes than the merit-only students.</p>