Please read my admission essay!

<p>I'm applying for BS grade 9 and all I want is some feedback from CCers about my essay. I have to trim some words because the maximum is 500 words and mine has 562 words , so if someone could maybe point out some not needed parts, that would help a lot in the trimming process. Or if you see a weak spot and want to offer some criticism, please be my guest.
P.S. Just for safety measures, names and places have been removed</p>

<p>My topic is: Explain the impact of an event or activity that has changed your life and/or way of thinking?</p>

<p>From our experiences in life, we learn and advance to become a better individual. Whether the event was jubilant or sorrowful, we learn nonetheless. We must treasure these valuable moments, for they shape the human conscience better than any lecture. My experience was unfortunately, not one of joy, but of depression.</p>

<p>I lived in the _______ until I was four. Then my family moved to a lovely little town called <strong><em>. _</em></strong>_ is a quiet town, thirty minutes away _________ by train, and overall beautiful. Lush trees dotted picturesque parks. During autumn, red and golden leaves shone like glitter when the sun shone on them. The air always felt so crisp and smooth, it was fun just walking on an early morning. But this would be the last time I would see this beautiful sight. I would be leaving for the ______ by myself, to meet with my mom and siblings while my dad would stay behind in ___<strong><em>. While the plane was taking off, I had my last glimpse of _</em></strong>. The shimmering lights of the city I’ve come to know looked even more unreal from the night sky. Then it was just clouds.</p>

<p>During the whole plane ride, my mind quarreled over what the ______ would be like, which might have been normal, considering this would be my first time in <strong><em>. But there was just one more issue. My mom and other _</em></strong>_ relatives always say it is amazing and I’ll love it there. But any world economic magazine or newspaper would tell you otherwise. After a long flight filled with worrying, movies and cheap snacks, I exited the plane onto ________ land, still unsure of what was to come. I met my mom and siblings at the exit, waiting for me. Hugs were given, and then I began my journey.</p>

<p>My trip from the airport to my new house was okay. We passed by some really nice clubs and buildings, and I was starting to enjoy myself. My family and I relaxed at an exclusive club called <strong><em>. We swam in an impressive outdoor pool, which felt nice under the relentless heat. We ate, we talked, we had fun, and I started to think why I ever doubted my family’s remarks. The next day, I saw what clubs like _</em></strong> were hiding, what laid outside the bubble of ___ City.</p>

<p>The next week, I went to one of the cities outside of ______. Since we didn’t have a car yet, we rode in a car service, and for the duration of the whole ride, I didn’t look out the window. That was my mistake. When my mom and I left the car, I wasn’t prepared for this. Garbage and plastic wrappers filled the gutters. Stray cats prowled around the buildings as if they owned them. People slept in every crack or crevice they could fin: doorways, cardboard mats, and the roofs of trucks. Even the air smelled of cheap gasoline and cigarettes. It was truly appalling.</p>

<p>I was so shocked I even lost my match. But these sights taught me a lesson no amount of reprimanding could teach me; I am a lucky child, and I have to make the most out of life. And ever since, that has been my mind-set, and I will never strive for less than the best.</p>

<p>Any and all criticism is appreciated. Thanks</p>

<p>Forgot to post this on the other “critique my essay” thread that popped up recently: I don’t advise posting your essay publicly, especially BEFORE you send in your application.</p>

<p>If you want to do it via PMs, that’s a different story.</p>

<p>More fatherly advice you can choose to ignore.</p>

<p>I agree with SevenDad. But then, I’m a mom—so ignore my motherly advice if you will. </p>

<p>In addition to it being a bad idea to post publicly for all the reasons that might occur to you now that you’ve been admonished, you risk getting bad advice from folks who don’t necessarily write well and who don’t know you at all.</p>

<p>I agree with SevenDad and girlgeekmom…but here’s a grandmother’s advice…write another essay.</p>

<p>A mom’s advice: This essay will probably get you rejected. Here’s why. The overall message is, “I’m a sheltered rich kid who is disgusted by poverty and have no empathy for anyone who lives outside of my own privileged bubble. Homeless people? EWWW! So now I’m applying to your school so I can hang out with other rich kids 24/7 and so I never have to see any of those disgusting poor people ever again!”</p>

<p>I am NOT saying that this is the type of person you really are. I hope not, anyway. But this is how your essay comes off.</p>

<p>Okay, so you noticed inequality and you felt really upset and shocked by it. That’s fine. But what did you DO about it? How are you helping to address at least one of the needs you saw? Did you even bother to meet or talk to anyone living in that area? </p>

<p>And poverty did NOT cause you to lose your match. This section tells the ad coms, “I’m the type of kid who blames others for my own mistakes.”</p>

<p>The “cheap gasoline” comment made me laugh. What, exactly, does expensive gasoline smell like?</p>

<p>Your mind can’t “quarrel.” I don’t think you understand the correct usage of that word.</p>

<p>I really wouldn’t bring up how depressed you were in your beautiful neighborhood. Mental health issues in general are not something an ad com wants to hear about. This screams, “This kid is going to be a problem in our community.”</p>

<p>A much, much better essay would have a message more along the lines of, “When I moved to X city from Y city, I was shocked and dismayed by the socioeconomic inequality I witnessed for the first time in my life (homelessness, all the other things you noticed). This was a painful experience and I had to do something to help my new community, so I volunteered at X organization and raised X amount of funds for X cause and as a result, Y happened. It’s a drop in the bucket, but it’s something. I’m committed to doing what I can to improve the quality of any community of which I am a part.”</p>

<p>But DID you do anything to help? Or did you just flub your tennis match and blame everyone and think, “Wow, poor people would make a great essay topic. I even saw some real ones!”</p>

<p>You have to realize how shallow you come across in your first draft. As I said, I hope that’s not the case. But that’s definitely the way the ad coms are going to view you if you use it. Ad coms are looking for students who can show empathy and who are problem solvers, not problem tellers. If you can demonstrate those two things in your rewrite, your essay will be greatly improved.</p>

<p>In addition to the advice given, I have 2 points to make that might help you on your next essay.</p>

<p>1) I would probably try to refrain from writing a short sentence and then beginning the next sentence with, “Then…” It just felt very elementary in that aspect.</p>

<p>2) A complete reversal from point #1, you used the word “siblings.” Do kids really talk like that? I.e. How often do you say, “I met my siblings for lunch this afternoon…”</p>

<p>Just a few points that I would think about.</p>

<p>This essay bothered me so much that I’m back for Round 2. </p>

<p>You need to remove the following things completely: The car service, the “cheap” snacks, the exclusive club, the indoor pool, and anything that mentions your financial station. </p>

<p>I get that you are trying to show the reader just how different this new city was to you and what you’re used to. But what you have to understand is that crowing about your own privilege is a MASSIVE turnoff to ad coms. You need to understand your audience here. Do you think your reader will have his/her own car service? Indoor pool? Exclusive club access? Let me blow your mind for a minute. I am a former boarding school teacher (at a school that is mentioned fairly often in this forum), and the highest salary I ever made there was $25,000, plus room and board. And I was a full-time faculty member, academic advisor, and coach. Your reader is probably not going to have ANY inkling of what it’s like having the kind of money you’re talking about growing up with. Do not alienate your reader.</p>

<p>Your own financial situation is irrelevant to your story here. You witnessed inequality, it was painful, and (hopefully) you did whatever you could to help your new community because you care about people and can’t stand to see anybody suffer. It doesn’t matter if your parents make $40,000/year or $4,000,000/year. A student whose parents have either one of those incomes could still be shocked by seeing people sleeping on the street for the first time and be moved to action.</p>

<p>If you haven’t done anything to help your new community, then I would encourage you to do so, not for the purposes of writing a good essay, but for the purpose of becoming a better human being. </p>

<p>The lesson you “learned” is also extremely trite. That you’re a lucky kid? Well, whoop de do and good for you. What did you learn about sharing? About empathy? About community service? About the common humanity that unites us all regardless of our economic circumstances? About human suffering? About ANYBODY who isn’t YOU? </p>

<p>I encourage you to step out of your comfort zone and use your privilege to make a difference in your world. My hope is that you will realize that being “lucky” isn’t enough. With great privilege comes great responsibility. YOU are responsible for your community. Not just the people who are the “problem.” Spend some time reading a bit about poverty, its causes, its impact on society, and its solutions. I highly recommend “A Framework for Understanding Poverty.” I also recommend you getting your hands dirty and stepping out of your comfort zone. Be creative. What is something small you can do to share your “luck” with others? You will be much happier and more fulfilled as a result.</p>