<p>I disagree with your views on abortion, but I understand and respect them. However, I believe that the debate has more to do with whether a fetus is a person than whether a fetus is alive.</p>
<p>As for gay rights... You are right that gays are "perfectly free to marry whomever they wish, provided they are a member of the opposite sex." And Henry Ford once said that his customers could get his car in whatever color they wanted, as long as it was black. As soon as you say "as long as" or "provided," you negate the "perfectly free" part. Until the 1960s, in most states people were "perfectly free" to marry whomever they wanted to, as long as they were of the same race. Was that fair?</p>
<p>Your argument of homosexuality being immoral and unhealthy is unconvincing, at best. AIDS does not discriminate. The fastest growing HIV-positive group in the United States is young, black, straight females. Should young, black, heterosexual females not be allowed to marry? Yet when you see a young black female, I doubt you immediately thinks of AIDS. When many people simply hear the word "gay," AIDS is the first word on their mind. Furthermore, lesbians have a lower rate of AIDS than the general population.</p>
<p>But none of that really matters. We allow HIV-positive people to marry, we allow criminals to marry (in jail, even), and I'm not saying that we shouldn't. But what do immorality and disease have to do with the right to marry? I have objected to individual marriages for personal reasons (one example: my cousin married a complete idiot and divorced her soon after). I did not agree with my cousin's choice, but I was not hurt by it. I am glad that he had the right to marry that woman, although I wish he hadn't exercised it.</p>
<p>There's also a difference between saying that something is a choice and that something is inherent at birth. I happen to belive that sexual orientation is decided before birth, and not by the individual. Many scientists and psychologists agree. I have yet to hear a convincing argument that homosexuality is a choice.</p>