<p>Hello parents,
I need some advice. I've been primarily a lurker and I've learned a lot here. But I need some advice... </p>
<p>Pomona was/is the dream school, and I was thrilled to get in. But my family didn't qualify for any finaid, which my parents say we really do need (we called Pomona this week and they can't/won't give us any more aid.) Going there would be a big stretch (the middle income crunch problem)....and a lot of debt for me.. in the realm of 15k+ a year. </p>
<p>Scripps-- I visited in February at a scholarship weekend, and got the JES (half tuition). I liked Scripps a lot, and there are some things that Scripps has in its favor over Pomona: parties are on the other campuses (I'm subfree) and a pretty campus (not that it's really a deciding factor.) Also I like the idea of graduating with much less debt- if I go to Scripps, my parents said I need to take care of 5k a year (loans, job, however I want to do it.) And I thought it might be easier/I may get more opportunities at Scripps as JES scholar- I don't know that there are specific things that go with being a JES scholar besides money, but I'm guessing it might be easier to be among the top students there=more opportunities (I don't mean to sound pretentious/arrogant). </p>
<p>However, I'm really in love with Pomona, and Pomona carries more prestige. But not the same as an Ivy- and it is less known on the East Coast, where I plan to go for grad school. Pomona, though, seems like a dream academically.... the only drawback about Pomona is I'm not sure how much of a role alchohol plays in Pomona's social life. </p>
<p>So do I go into debt for relative prestige? (relative since Pomona is less known on the east coast) I'm also wondering in general how much debt is reasonable to take for undergrad. </p>
<p>My head says Scripps, and I think I could be very happy at Pomona or Scripps, and I could cross-register. But Pomona is also coed and thought of as the powerhouse of the Claremont Colleges- I'd have to try to get into their creative writing classes, for example, since Scripps has none-- and for some reason I can't let go of the school I've wanted to go for the past two years. I just don't want to be thought of as "that Scripps girl" when I'm cross-registering for classes since all along I'll know I got into Pomona, if that makes sense, and I've also heard many Scrippsies wanted to get into Pomona or CMC but didn't get in- there seems to be less school spirit at Scripps than Pomona. </p>
<p>Whew. I am thrilled I got such a scholarship from Scripps, not to sound un-grateful. Also: does anyone have Scripps stats or somehow I can convince my parents that Scripps really is a good school academically? Literally no one my parents know has even heard of Scripps (though they will still send me there.) </p>
<p>Thanks-- and sorry for being long-winded!</p>