<p>I would continue at school. Maybe you can pick a minor or certificate such as business, plant genetic engineering, botany. Then try to work; maybe you could contribute some of your earnings to the farm? If work doesn’t pan out, then you can return to the farm and bring back your business/botany skills with you which may be helpful to the farm.</p>
<p>Your aunts and uncles are probably bitter due to the hard work and they probably want “all hands” helping out to make their lives (and everyone’s lives) easier. But you are not completely excluding yourself from helping out at the farm, it’s just that you are excluding helping out FOR NOW. If you quit school to work at the farm, given the family dynamic, you will likely never go back to school again. And maybe your aunts and uncles are bitter because they feel like they never had the chance to pursue their dreams. If that’s the case, then if you quit school to work the farm, you may end up feeling the same regret that they may be feeling 20 years from now.</p>