<p>Don’t do what other people want you to do or pressure you to do at your age. Just smile and nod and do your own thing and pursue your own life.</p>
<p>Tell them you will come back to the farm after you finish your education if that is the right thing for you to do, but not before.</p>
<p>Honestly, if you do this, you will resent them for the rest of your life and they will NOT appreciate it. People, family, never appreciate these things for long. They always just move on tho the next thing they want to pressure you into doing. But do your own thing and stay clear and respectful, and they will appreciate you and you will appreciate them, as the years go by. </p>
<p>Good luck to you.</p>