<p>these are way more than concerns....these are assumptions by the OP that she will be miserable, used, and needs to shut her down before the poor roommate even has a chance to walk through the door</p>
<p>having a game plan is on thing, wanting to control everything is quite different, especailly as the OP has said that in the past, she lets people take "advantage"</p>
<p>would anyone here want to walk into that?</p>
<p>when my D was at a camp, she was the only one with a printer, I sent her with extra ink just in case, the kids brought their own paper, an you know what? she met some great people by sharing a little</p>