I told myself I wouldn’t visit this page again before decisions, but I just wanted to say that pages 7 and 8 of this thread have probably been the most productive and helpful pages on this entire forum. Huge thank you to all of you guys! The next 35 days are probably going to be the longest few days of my life, but I’ll probably do something during then to keep all this out of my mind.
The decision is so subjective, but there’s really nothing we can do about it right now. What we can do, however, is prepare for the worst by completing our other applications and making a list of other “dream” schools. Know that, while Princeton is the special school that we all have at the top of our lists, there are so many other great schools out there that can provide the same amazing experiences. It’s all a lottery anyway, but the more lotteries you play at once, the higher chance you have of winning at least one.
Here is a wonderful resource from the MIT admissions office:
http://mitadmissions.org/blogs/entry/applying_sideways
The key to getting in is not found by just following a certain path or by doing certain things. The key is found by applying sideways and by being yourself. At the top-tier level, schools pick and choose actual students, not certain test scores or extracurricular activities. Princeton might want a passionate writer who enjoys photography for their new class, while Yale might want a violin soloist who loves applied mathematics. If you do get deferred, you’re not alone! It doesn’t mean that you are not good enough; it means that there is another school out there that fits your personality better.
Last year, there was an applicant who was overly qualified; she had a near perfect SAT, wrote a historical paper about Tokugawa relations in a Stanford journal, won numerous awards for international relations, participated in flute competitions, and was a youth ambassador to Finland (her username is ambitious19). She applied to Princeton early as her first choice, but was deferred and later rejected. In the end, however, she was accepted to Yale, Stanford, UPenn, Wellesley, JHU, and many other great schools. Use this as inspiration; know that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, and that a deferral from Princeton may just be an opportunity for you to open more doors that you would’ve never known were there.
Good luck on your applications! I’ll probably stick around here a bit until our decisions on December 14th.