<p>You’ve done quite well in the college admissions process.</p>
<p>Let’s see if I can deduce a few things from your posts…
Based on where you have been accepted, I’m going to guess that you also applied to Harvard and Yale (perhaps Stanford, too). You’re probably on the wait-list at one or more of those schools. If you didn’t apply to Stanford, it’s because you thought the CA school wasn’t “intellectual” enough. (It’s a great school, by the way.) You probably earned a perfect ACT score, were extensively involved in various extracurricular activities (music-cello, oboe?), performed well in academic competitions (geography/spelling bees, writing/art contests, math (AMC)/chem/physics olympiad, etc.), and are in the running for valedictorian at your high school (Jackson Prep?). You took the ACT or SAT in 7th grade under the auspices of the Johns Hopkins (CTY) or Duke gifted student search. You’re a girl who’s great at math and science, so you’ve been targeted by every single STEM program under the sun. I presume you’re also being considered for some prestigious regional scholarships. Good luck with those. The scholarship(s) should reduce the student and parent contribution portions of your financial aid package.</p>
<p>Have you toured any of the colleges at which you have been accepted? If not, you should visit your top 2 or 3 choices. Many colleges have a visitation weekend for accepted students. Take advantage of such programs (even if it means time away from studying for your upcoming AP tests). Stay overnight on campus with a student host. Sit in on a few classes. Meet with professors. Hang out with current students. Ask lots of questions. Imagine yourself as a matriculating student there.</p>
<p>You’ve listed numerous stereotypes associated with each college in your list. Once you look past those stereotypes, you’ll find that you could have a great experience at any of those colleges.</p>
<p>Workload is dependent upon the person. I never understood people who opted to take challenging coursework and then complained incessantly about it. Choose your courses with care, and the workload will be manageable. College is as stressful as you want it to be.</p>
<p>Your academic interests are varied enough that I don’t see you being unhappy at any of the colleges you listed. If you choose to apply to med school, you’ll do fine in the admissions process coming from any of those schools.</p>
<p>I’d recommend selecting the school that will surround you with the brightest, most motivated students. Their outlook on the world and work ethic will certainly rub off on you.</p>
<p>When all is said and done, I predict you will choose the college with the most prestigious name (Princeton). You’ll do great there…or at one of the schools at which you have been wait-listed. Lots of wait-list shuffling occurs in May and during the summer. You never know what might happen. :-)</p>
<p>Enjoy college!</p>