<p>milly,
I’m choosing between Stanford and Princeton too. I’m not as worried about the grade deflation at Princeton as I am with the social atmosphere… I get the vibe that it’s more competitive, more conservative, and… dare I say it, more elitist than Stanford. I do feel that in terms of academics, Princeton wins… But Stanford’s location is a huge draw (it’s close to home).
I wasn’t offered aid by either school, so they’re equal there. For you, I think I’d agree with the person who suggested that you go to Princeton to save for law school. If you’re on the fence, I feel like money is the best incentive.</p>