<p>Here's my situation.</p>
<p>I was waitlisted at my first choice school, which does not rank or tier waitlisted applicants.</p>
<p>My college counselor said that after talking to the admissions folks there, she thinks I have a good chance of getting off the wait list.</p>
<p>My 2nd choice school, CMU, offered a slot on the priority waiting list.</p>
<p>For the meantime, I'm enrolling in another school that I wouldn't mind going to where I know I'll be happy, but is not as good as CMU or my #1.</p>
<p>My dad suggested that I accept the CMU priority waiting list, and said that he would pay the $800 deposit if I got in, but having read the letter he claims I can just withdraw if I'm later accepted at my #1 choice because CMU can't force me to go there.</p>
<p>I've heard different things on CC, one guy said:
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If you deposit at CMU, yes, you have to attend. Don't deposit there if you get off the wait list unless you are going to attend.
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but another said (answering whether enrolling is binding)
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No, it just means that if you do not enroll you will lose your deposit.
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<p>I'm at a real crossroads here. I would love, love, love to go to CMU, but I like my #1 so much that I can't give up on an opportunity to go there.</p>
<p>What should I do? Can I deposit and not attend CMU? Will this make our school be blacklisted? (Like breaking an ED contract) Will I be taking some kid's slot that will not be able to be filled from the waitlist?
What happens if I accept the regular waiting list? If only %20 get off the priority list, will my chances go from slim to none?</p>
<p>I would really appreciate any help.</p>