<p>I've been thinking about the idea of joining a fraternity. I'm going to be a freshman this fall. I'm not sure if its right for me and want some opinions from people who are already in frats, and who are willing to give me some information.</p>
<p>I like the idea of a brotherhood, people watching each others back, and older friends to give you advice and recommendations. At the same time I don't want to be in a situation where I have to do something I don't want to do, and by that I mean illegal things, or something really stupid.</p>
<p>I've heard stories on both sides of the extreme. About making lifelong friends and connections that further your career, and about the frat brothers that got arrested for helping an older member cover up a crime. </p>
<p>I'm guessing these things don't happen all the time, but I'm just not sure what to expect. All I'm hearing is the extremes from anyone I ask, either its the best thing in the world, or the worst.</p>
<p>I've checked out some of the frats on campus and narrowed it down to a few I have an interest in: Zeta Beta Tau, Sigma Alpha Mu, and Alpha Epsilon Pi. If your in one of these fraternities, I would especially like your opinion on what you like or dislike about them.</p>