<p>so I have this friend who joined our fraternity during the first rush season the most recent February, after we colonized in October 2009. Last semester, we hung out on the weekends, did model UN together, and always chatted online or on bbm, and got lunch. However, ever since a new organization that we helped start up has been meeting, he's been ditching me. </p>
<p>I feel he has used me to get ideas, passed them off as his own in the organization and tried to include himself in the things I'm supposed to do, but doesn't do vice versa. He and his friend invite me to buy alcohol with and for them (they're not 21), but they haven't invited me to anything with them on the weekends. However, the kid used to invite me to everything with him, he's changed the way he has facebook/bbm convos, I confided in this kid, I went out of my way to get to his apartment off campus numerous weekends last semester. I feel like I've been stabbed in the back and betrayed. Thing is, he knows everything about me now and he knows me well. I don't want to lose him as a friend, as I feel his reasons for trying to ditch me are unfair, tho some of it is grounded in his concern about his image, even tho he's a foreign student who doesn't have a lot of friends. But I cannot tell him to "**** himself" because I cannot afford to make any enemies. He's a manipulative user and I'm furious with him. He's used me to make his way up the social ladder, but he won't let me climb with him. </p>
<p>What do I do? Should I ignore him as he seems to be trying to do to me? Should I confront him? I already told him I was hurt when he and a friend went to a club in the city without telling me, then he called me to meet him as if he was being nice, even tho they could have waited for me before they left. Or will he eventually get his due somehow?</p>