Prom Confusion

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>Basically my story is that I asked a girl to prom. She said yes, but 3 days later someone else asked her to prom, even though she had already said yes to me. My date decided that she'd rather go with him, and thus dumped me. I am confused as to what to do now, I want to go to prom, but after this happening, it will be tough for me to find a date as I do not have many options. (This happened about a week ago)</p>

<p>One of the only options I can think of right now is asking her twin sister (fraternal) to prom, but I would think that would be very awkward. </p>

<p>Anyone have any tips on what I should do? I can maybe find another date, but it would be with someone I don't know very well, and communication with them would probably be weird.</p>

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<p>find another date that’s not her sister. You don’t want any drama, feelings of resent, or awkwardness.</p>

<p>you could just ask a friend?</p>

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<p>Be a gentleman and let it go. Ask a friend from another hs or a friend from your hs who knows the situation.</p>

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<p>I’m just not sure who to ask for that. People have told me they could have me meet someone from a different school that I could potentially take to prom, but prom is in less than 2 months, and I should probably have a date before May, so i’m not sure if this is enough time to meet someone new.</p>

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<p>2 months is a long time. :slight_smile: no worries, there are a lot of girls around your city.</p>

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<p>and batllo, I already talked to her about it and told I forgive, just that it hurt, etc. but that’s it.</p>

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<p>and yeah youre right washine, just not sure if I should try meeting someone new or just trying to find a friend.</p>

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<p>So ask a non-romantic friend you know wants to go, but doesn’t want a relationship, just friendship, since you are under a time restraint.
2 months is like infinity in high school terms</p>

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<p>yeah but i probably will have to get a tux by end of april i’d think? not sure</p>

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<p>Frankly, that girl has to be a ***** to do something like that. I wouldn’t have been as cool about her doing that as you. In fact, to get back at her, I would take her fraternal sister, then after prom, consummate the date if you know what I mean ;-)</p>

<p>That would show her.</p>

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<p>^lol… could work… maybe</p>

<p>But yeah, that girl is a huge b***h. You should egg/tp her house.</p>

<p>But more seriously, if your prom is in 2 months, you have plenty of time. Most people here only start asking 4 wks in advance at the earliest. 2 weeks in advance is plenty of time to rent a tux. So you have a month to decide I guess. Then again, your school may vary</p>

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<p>are you planing to go, with a date or not?</p>

<p>because if so, you can rent a tux that’s black or white, and find a tie that matches the girl’s dress later.</p>

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<p>Hire an escort… jokes…</p>

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<p>Yeah i know, i wa spretty depressed about it for a few days but im getting over it now. and yeah well the reason i considered her sister was that she is on my side and against her sister, and that shows something lol. And yeah i guess youre right about that, can just find a matching tie later.</p>

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<p>^ Now I’m going to be helpful. The same thing happened to my cousin (who is a girl) so I told her I’d go with her (no one at her school knows who I am) and worked really well. For some reason everyone seems to have one “hot cousin” I’d go for that. Oh and the twin sister thing is a bit of a d-bag move but a brilliant d-bag move nonetheless.</p>

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<p>If you don’t think asking her is too awkward after she knows that her sister was a *****, go for it dude.</p>

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<p>This girl I know is having some family friend come up from North Carolina to go to the prom with her. I think it’s insane since they don’t like each other, but apparently some people really want dates.
So, import someone?</p>

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<p>ehh maybe, and nah don’t have a hot cousin LOL. but yeah i guess ill figure something out, thanks for the comments guys</p>

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<p>hahaha well as long as getting an escort is being considered, importing someone i guess would be along those same lines</p>

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<p>I think going with the twin would be a brilliant “screw you” to the girl.</p>

<p>However you will have to make sure your date doesn’t feel like the “second choice”; tell her you didn’t realize how much better she is until this whole fiasco or something.</p>