PROM...what to do?

<p>Oy~ okay. So I know that senior prom is still away, but it's looming closer with each day. And, I just rhymed. - -;</p>

<p>Anyway, a guy friend asked me nonchalantly to go a while back so I said, "ok". But, frankly, I don't want to go with the guy bc he's sorta feminine (I think he's bi), not to be mean or anything. </p>

<p>Should I just go with friends? Or should I go with my guy friend? I have a feeling it's gonna be awkward with my guy friend but I don't want to go dateless.</p>

<p>There is another option, of asking this guy I know. But, the thing is, I'm afraid he'll think that I'm crushing on him. I asked him to be my partner for this project once, and he got all bigheaded. (What a friggin EGO) Ever since then, I severed ties from him. </p>

<p>Maybe I shouldn't go at all? Any suggestions?</p>

<p>Mega Ego and somebody who might like men. Four years of intensive male networking in high school and this is all you have?</p>

<p>Stay home and contemplate your worthlessness. Or, go scope out dudes with a date who will spend more time on his hair than you.</p>

<p>har har har. words of wisdom, indeed. lol</p>

<p>hrm, don't ask the egotistical guy, if he interpreted being partners for a project as a sign of attraction, there's no telling what he'll think if you approach him about prom. I'd figure out how serious the semi-feminine guy was in asking you: was he really as nonchalant as he seemed or was that an act to look more self-assured? How big of a deal does he make of it and how would he react if you call it off? If he's a guy-friend, you could go in a pack of friends and include him in the pack. Though you might not want to go stag, if you really don't have any romantic interest in the guys available, just bringing someone along for the sake of bringing someone along is more likely to make the evening awkward and won't do anything towards having a good time, which of course is what prom's supposed to be about. Go with whoever you'll have fun with. Good luck!</p>

<p>lol. sorry. actually i'm sorta in a similar thing. fast & furious senior year and all</p>

<p>my gf said yes a few months ago to a friend of mine who she's not interested in at all. we "happened" about a week later - he still hasn't figured out that we're together, and no one has the guts to tell him. Sucker. he's still a cool guy and all though.</p>

<p>She's going to end up either saying no or ditching him at the thing.. if she goes with him i'll probably take a frosh.</p>

<p>i think you should call it off now so he has more time to find another date.. and it's senior prom... you can't look back on this as the safety date you took with a loser</p>

<p>Asking a girl to prom is like applying to a college EA, ...... if you get deferred or rejected you have plenty of time for RD.. good thing he went early. and luckily, there's no ED policy, so it's not binding!</p>

<p>reject the bastard</p>

<p>bwahaha~ Nice analogy. Yea, I know I'll probably get asked by other guys, but by ppl I don't want to go with. Yep, I'm a picky b*tch. Always have been nd always will.</p>

<p>G'luck with your gf Neostrife, nd thx for the responses/advice!! :)</p>

<p>Hhhmmm, so I decided to just go with my guy friend. (He asked me again)<br>
He is so sweet and I just didn't have the heart to say no. I have the sneaking suspicion that he may like me!!! </p>

<p>I sincerely hope not!! :/</p>

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Asking a girl to prom is like applying to a college EA, ...... if you get deferred or rejected you have plenty of time for RD.. good thing he went early. and luckily, there's no ED policy, so it's not binding!

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<p>Brilliant!</p>