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. . . constantly getting terrible grades and having profs and advisors constantly giving you the cold shoulder can crush your self-confidence for years to come. Then you start believing that you are dumb and questioning your own abilities.
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<p>Well, this is part of my point. You're making a real generalization here, once again, about public schools. As stated before, the public schools with which I am familiar (admittedly pretty much limited to the UNC 16 campus-wide system), professors and advisors are not inaccessible, nor do they offer "cold shoulders."</p>
<p>At <em>any</em> college or university, students may not do well academically--not just at public universities. I doubt doing badly academically is connected to quality of the teaching or faculty/advisor/tutorial accessibility. I can imagine that at any school (or any endeavor) where one fails, self-confidence and second-guessing oneself would plummet--for a time, anyway. That's pretty much a given.</p>
<p>Public universities are supported, in part, by their state taxpayers. Their mission, first and foremost, is to educate the residents of their state. Consequently, publics will always have a broader range of student diversity- which certainly includes academic ability and background. They are also [comparatively] very affordable for their in-state residents. In fact, publics may be the <em>only</em> chance that some kids will have for to enroll in and complete college. </p>
<p>No one, at a public or private school, wants to see their students flunk out. At both types of institutions, they work hard to ensure this doesn't happen. Regardless, I'm sure it does-- at all kinds of schools-- and for many and varied reasons.</p>
<p>Also, with public universities with lots of campuses (not just the flagship), the selectivity and size will vary; the level of difficulty does as well. For kids who want to go the college route, and can't afford a private school, the public university system will welcome them. They may not be able to get into the flagship, based on high school performance, but they may well be able to get into another campus in their system. And they may end up doing very well. Some people are late bloomers, or didn't enjoy high school but find their niche in college. Some public schools actually view the applications more holistically, rather than simply looking at GPA and test scores. I admire them for giving people a chance.</p>
<p>Also, some states have outstanding community colleges. I admire them (and the states that strongly support them) for what they offer and do as well.</p>
<p>I personally don't think that everybody needs to attend college. I think there are plenty of students who aren't cut out for that, but who would do well to learn a trade--and would be better suited for that. More and more, though, this country seems determined to ensure that everyone gets a 4 year college education, whether they need/want it or not. I really don't think everybody does need one. I find it far tougher to find someone who knows how to lay tile, or lay/repair a slate roof, or fix my shoes or my car, etc., and I'm thrilled when I find people who can do this and do it competently and dependably. </p>
<p>On to engineering-- I honestly don't know of any engineering programs (in the UNC public system, at least) that take on poor students. The College of Engineering at NC State University, for instance, requires a separate application. I believe in 2006, they had over 4,000 freshman applications to the College of Eng, of which ~1400 were enrolled. Admission is competitive (moreso than to the University itself). They all have an advisor; they all must meet certain requirements before being accepted, and they must meet some general first year requirements before entrance into engineering. Your experience with university engineering programs/schools that accept unqualified students seems unusual to me.</p>