<p>Before I begin my rant, I would first like to send my most sincere "congratulations" to all the admitted and wait-listed applicants. Although these acceptances are in no way, an indication of where you'll be down the road or your intellectual ability, it is truly an accomplishment. Be proud. </p>
<p>Now, to all the rejected applicants. I applied to eight schools this admissions season. I was also rejected at * every, single, one of them *. Trust me, you're not alone. The majority of the members on this board was rejected or wait-listed AT LEAST one school. Feel free to cry and whine for the first few weeks, but then we all need to move on. Don't fret. Although it may sound cliche, "everything truly will be okay".</p>
<p>Let's put this into perspective. Is boarding school (or even college for that matter) really necessary in order to make radical, social change? No. The majority of our world's most radical leaders, that really made political and societal change, didn't attend an absurdly competitive, college preparatory, boarding school. Some of them didn't even attend college. For the most part, success depends on the student, not the school. I'm essentially saying that, Rosanne Adderly and Hafsat Abiola would have still been great historians, even if they didn't attend Andover. What I just said may seem very evident. However, we all seem to forget, that these "notable alumni" that attend these schools that we so desperately want to attend, would still be who they are, regardless of what school they attended. It seems as though, some of us are a little too consumed in prestige. Please don't be deloused. A prestigious school cannot teach you how to be unconventional, progressive, or radical. </p>
<p>I'm not saying that every CC member, are applying to these college prep schools, solely for their prestige. I understand that everyone has their own individual reason as to why they wanted to attend boarding school. At the beginning of the school year, I attended a large, traditional public school. It didn't work for me. It didn't provide the individualized, personal learning environment, that I yearned for. My current school does have much smaller classrooms and a more personalized learning environment. However, it is technically a continuation school. Both schools had a very limited course selection. I needed a balance. I needed a school that was going to have small class sizes, personalized learning environment, a vast selection of courses, like-minded students, and an overall progressive school. I thought that boarding school, would be just that. Therefore, I was incredibly distraught when I discovered that I was rejected at all eight schools. However, I (and all the other "rejects") will be just fine without a bourgeois, competitive, college preparatory, boarding school. I say that, not in a condescending, bitter, boastful manner. I say that to demonstrate that, success depends on the student, NOT THE SCHOOL. </p>
<p>To all the "rejects" (myself included):
These "rejections" are in no way an indication of your intellectual capability, ability to think critically, or future academic achievement. All it says, is that for "whatever reason", these schools couldn't appreciate what you had to offer. Let me ask you a question. Do you * really * want to attend a school, that can't appreciate you, for who and what you are? There are plenty of applicants who weren't admitted the first time, but then improved their grades, test scores etc., and were accepted. Why is that? Their character didn't change. However, their academic achievement improved, and that's what they care about. Do you really want to be at a school like that? If the answer is "yes", that's fine. However, I don't necessarily want to be at a school like that. </p>
<p>My primary objective in creating this thread, was to "put things into perspective". Hopefully, I met my objective...</p>