Sorry, been traveling (in LA actually) so haven’t been able to be too responsive…I don’t think selecting USC earlier will increase her chance of admission. However, you are able to change your selection as often as you want between now and the deadline, so if your other schools don’t need it done by March 1st, she can always select USC now then change it after decisions are out. Of course, you should research if other schools she is interested in need an earlier commitment of that choice for whatever reason.
I totally get her being in love and that’s ok! While I don’t like to see kids over emotional about a dream school, truth it, is can be hard not to. And they don’t get a do-over of those college years. Is that perhaps some of the reason the grandparents want the $ used for undergrad and not graduate school?
We don’t know your financial situation and no one understands how you want to fund your kid’s education. How much you dig into your retirement plans, or the next new car, travel, trips to TJ Maxx etc - that is up to you and only you. For some, those things are way less important than paying big bucks for a college, for others, it’s reverse. Both are ok. There are plenty that sacrifice everything for their kids in different ways, it is a personal choice.
I have sent several to college and we definitely turned down our fair share of full ride/very generous offers and lower cost options and chose to pay more at USC. But we really felt the fit for them at USC that wasn’t felt at the other schools. Did the $ impact us? Of course. But not an ounce of regret. (But the grandparent $ would have been great! ha.)
There was a wonderful dad on here years ago in angst about turning down a Trustees at USC for full pay at Yale (with a real financial struggle to do so). She went to Yale. He reported back in a DM a couple years in that he felt they made the right choice for them, and that’s all that matters.
I’m not rah rah USC, every school has good and bad, but for mine, I know the choice made a difference and they have things now they wouldn’t have gotten elsewhere. Point is, if she gets in, whether you want to pay the price, or choose not to - should only be driven by your family’s heart and minds.
Wish her luck in getting in and peace in the decision!