<p>i’ve always thought girls wanted guys who were nice and caring. </p>
<p>seems like i’ve been wrong from what i’ve heard lately. </p>
<p>so would girls like guys to be pretentious, assertive, etc…?</p>
<p>hmmm. and what about this. would u prefer a </p>
<li>nice, smart, polite guy</li>
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<p>or </p>
<li>assertive, little rude w. jokes maybe, bit ostentatious</li>
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<p>i’m not refering to looks at all.</p>
<p>In all honesty, it depends on the girl you're talking about.</p>
<p>Some girls out there are looking for a nice, charming guy. Someone caring, supportive, etc blah blah. You've heard it before. The perfect guy to bring home to their parents.</p>
<p>Some girls are looking for a guy that's a little bit different, someone that maybe gives them a challenge or plays slighty hard to get.</p>
<p>I imagine it's like guys looking at girls: Different guys have different tastes. Likewise, different girls have different tastes.</p>
<p>i`d prefer 1, but sometimes it tends to get boring -__-.</p>
<p>Young girls want more adventure and excitement from a guy. Then they'll reach an age when your social status and stability mean much more.</p>
<p>If you are a naturally nice guy, the key is to be a part time prick. When they say "the nice guy finishes last", people refer to the guy that always pays for everything, does everything the girl wants, and becomes the subservient figure. That kind of guy gets no respect.</p>
<p>Pinch her, tickle her, tease her, grab her - exert all those things that are now simply artifacts of ancient masculinity. Nice guys care just a little too much. Guys like a tender girl, but don't be too tender yourself.</p>
<p>Anyways, pick up as many chicks as you can as early as you can. The more experience and variety you get the better. It's a dog eat dog world and the guys with the best package and most ambition come out with the best quality girls.</p>
<p>i'd prefer guy 1, but honestly, my biggest requirement for a guy is emotional stability. a guy who doesn't have that is out of the question, no matter what his other qualities may be.</p>
<p>edit: tropicaltriceps posted before i did... i realize this pretty much contradicts everything s/he said. i obviously don't want to date a subservient tool. i'll add boundaries as another requirement.</p>
<p>alright. gotcha</p>
<p>nice, assertive, politically/acad. smart, polite guy, jokes</p>
<p>Meh.</p>
<p>courteous, charming, assertive, opinionated, outgoing, sociable, intelligent, amusing, humorous, confident (but not arrogant), comfortable, good character/morals...sigh</p>
<p>guy1 types sometimes can be too nice, boring, and can be pushovers. hence the cliche: nice guys finish last</p>
<p>but then again, that's just me.</p>
<p>i would prefer guy 2. definitely...</p>
<p>aslong as the guy is not completly boring and all over the girl...then #1 def. #1 is what all the girls are loooking for, but i think a lot of girls dont beleive that it exists in reality, and therefore settle with #2. as long as ur genuine about it, and can still joke and have fun, ur gonna be a catch.</p>
<p>from what ive heard...</p>
<p>shy/quiet guys are fierce in bed..:D</p>
<p>anyone think this is a true statement? hmm? lol</p>
<p>AHH yes..i have a feeling their the kinkiest...</p>
<p>u know...the little nerd in the corner...i bet hes got some amazing things up his sleeve...whereas the jock...eh all he can really do is look good and lay there....ahaha</p>
<p>my best friend dated a shy guy. and let's just say she didn't regret it. at all...</p>
<p>AAHAH...im having a fun time with some boys now...but it seems that the shy one is the one with no experience, the prick one who does care about me has too much experience, and this reallly really nice kid...well he talks too much, but he was preety good before he started to have feelings for me...now he wants to take it slow...so yea im not with him</p>
<p>oooh, i'm jealous lulubelle. my bf and i just broke up. and i guess he is really intimidating, cuz all the guys are afraid to talk to me b/c my ex-bf says i'm off limits. it really p***es me off, cuz i don't belong to anyone.</p>
<p>u being saracastic?...hah i cant tell...yea that whole after break up craps retarded....my ex of a year and a half...well long story short...after 6 months of not ebing together, were cool with eachother beign wtih other people...but his best friend started talking to me..and well i guess im NOT ALLOWED to acording to all our mutual friends. i hate it</p>
<p>well.. i wouldn't want to belong to anyone....</p>
<p>see.. i have this problem with commitment thingi...</p>
<p>I'm a chameleon. I can be anything you want me to be baby.</p>
<p>omg me tooo! ive had one bf in my life...it was for a year and a half and i loved it while it lasted...and finally i was like what am i doing! i need to getttt ooouuut! and get me some guys! haha so i broke upwith him and have been HAVING A BLAST since....but the thing is is that there are a lot of guys i should be dating...btu im too scared to cut offmy connections to all my other freinds/guys</p>
<p>i am completely serious lulu!!! and i do not belong to him, but no matter how often i tell him and everyone, they still ignore me. i think they are afraid of what he might do... like i said he can be intimidating.</p>