<p>a doormat is extremely unattractive</p>
<p>Wow it seems like theres on of these threads evry 2 weeks. "I'm nice and smart but girls always want the jocks who are a s s holes." "Why dont girls like me?" Its getting repetitive..im not exaggerating at all. It gets repetitive.</p>
<p>"when i think of classy girl i think of fur coats, leather boots, perfume, expensive handbag."</p>
<p>the classiest girl i know prefers reading over parties, has perfect posture, never does anything crazy, not arrogant. its not nerdy, but you know a classy girl when you see one.</p>
<p>classy girls are awesome. too bad there's very few these days.</p>
<p>i'd prefer a nice, smart guy who likes to joke around, isn't too shy, but no pretentiousness allowed</p>
<p>I generally prefer an assertive guy who I can call "master"...</p>
<p>JUST KIDDING!</p>
<p>Nice, smart, polite guys are wonderful, don't get me wrong, but can become extremely mundane. Aren't chocolate chip cookies nice? Sort of a comfort food for some, you might say. They taste yummy, fill you up, and can even lift your spirits. That being said, could you eat them 24 hours a day, every day as your only source of sustinance? I doubt it. Same with guys.</p>
<p>Assertive guys with rude little jokes can rock, but eventually their rudeness will progress from funny to downright obnoxious. I've always been a fan of the bad boy type, but it can only last so long.</p>
<p>A mix of both personalities is best. Depends on the girl though..some prefer their boys honest and pure, others like them good & corrupted. Whatever you're into :)</p>
<p>classy girls have standards/integrity/character. that's how i think of it, at least.</p>
<p>edit: and by that i don't mean arrogant... just a girl who's comfortable with who she is and won't degrade herself for someone else's sake. it's definitely more about attitude than clothes or physical appearance. similar to dignified, i guess?</p>
<p>Yes, the classy girl who has some self-initiative and isn't dependent is very attractive. She doesn't have to be super-smart, but self-assured and confident. Of course, I'm not talking about the feminist type but those girls who can hold their own and take care of themselves. That's very attractive. And I don't know about other guys, but to me, the bubbly girls get boring very quickly, but a girl who likes to b!tch and complain is super hot. haha</p>
<p>I'm surrounded by smart guys and jocks, guys mothers want their daughters to be with. But I always liked rockers and skaters. I like rebellious guys and I am the complete opposite :/</p>
<p>In middle school I was enthralled by the kind of girl you are talking about, cherrybarry.</p>
<p>After I went out with em I totally changed my mind. I now love the confident, independent girl who knows how to be subtle and quiet. These gorgeous specimens work, pay for what they have, have good familial relationships, and never brag. They make for excellent conversation, yet you often see them silent, contemplative. They have close females friends who are obviously high quality people as well. They flirt only when they're interested in someone. They stand out from both the introverts and the extroverts, they are far beyond the bookworm and the valley girl. Wooooo im getting woozy.</p>