<p>hey for what its worth, im a decent guy, so there is at least one of us. to bad im just a junior in high school lol.</p>
<p>I'm a decent guy but I am too shy :( (I almost went to Bucknell (If I didn't get into Rochester, that's where I was going to go... hehe))</p>
<p>Thank god none of those things happened at Bucknell. If they had I think I would be filling out transfer applications as we speak. Those all occured in various cities (NYC and San Francisco), and three of the four happened in one night (recently) while I was out with friends. </p>
<p>The reason I put this out there is I was going to go out with friends tonight to an 18 and over club, but I started to worry that even though I enjoy dressing up (nothing rediculous, but still nice looking) I really don't want to attract attention, and I was just wondering if others felt the same way. I ended up taking a spill while riding (first time in two years) so I was too sore to go out out and it never ended up as an issue.</p>
<p>bonafide20--I completely empathise about not wanting to be rude and feeling as though you have to respond. I feel like that too a lot of the time. eek about the grampas, though, that sounds meggga creepy!</p>
<p>311--I do agree that when you dress up it is ultimately for other people, but the process itself is fun (at least for girls), especially if you pick stuff out with friends and do eachother's make up etc. it's a very social thing to prepare for going out with friends.</p>
<p>I know there are decent guys out there, it just gets exhausting when the only people who ever approach you or make a move or w/e are creepy. Especially when you're an over analyzer like myself who can never manage to tell a guy she likes him, and never picks up on hints because she's so worried that she's misinterpreted them, it just makes the whole guy/girl thing tiring.</p>
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<p>I was going to say this earlier, but yes that is pretty true unfortunately.</p>