Hi all:
I am a current freshman at Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo and could really use some advice.
I just finished my second quarter at Cal Poly and am still not adjusting well to being here.
To be fair, academically I find this school to be stellar. I have been in some amazing classes with wonderful professors who genuinely care about their students success in their classes. I have also been doing very well in all my classes, which gives me a reason to stay at Cal Poly.
However, it feels like everything unrelated to academics isn’t working for me here. For one thing, I can’t seem to connect with the kind of people I am meeting here. Not to generalize, but there is a strong surf culture here that values the outdoors, and I don’t fit in with that one bit. I appreciate the outdoors and hiking, however that is not the only thing I can picture myself doing for 4 years. The lack of culture and food diversity doesn’t help either. Having come from a big city, moving to SLO felt like moving into a bubble. Additionally, the student body lacks diversity. It feels like the majority of the students are white, middle class, and either come from Southern California or the Bay Area. That being said, I don’t feel like I am learning anything from my fellow peers, as we all have rather similar backgrounds. In fact, I find it very hard to connect with them on an intellectual level, as it seems like a lot of them only find pleasure in talking about their frat party experiences or greek life (which I am not a part of). Another thing I am struggling with is how isolating SLO can be. The access to this city is very limited, and the nearest big city is 3 hours away.
I am very conflicted because I know that this is the right school for me academically and for what I want to study. However, I feel like I am not growing as a person here. It feels like a big high school and I really wanted more for myself. The only problem is that financially Cal Poly made the most sense for my parents. Does anybody know if these feelings about SLO eventually go away or if I just need to lower my expectations?
Thanks all!