<p>I think how the fraternity views drinking and partying is dependent on overall campus culture. The Greek Life on my campus is known for crazy partying but NOBODY is outcasted if they don’t drink or don’t hook up or anything. Most people are respectful of your decisions and have an open mind. I also know people who have met long term boyfriends and girlfriends from our Greek life. I think you should look into the campus’ specific free culture before committing. But I do think there are other ways of meeting people and dating around. I think Greek makes it a lot easier since they do a lot of mixers between fraternities and sororities.</p>