<p>Which college/university?</p>
<p>Is any of the aid coming from the PA state government, or is it all from the college/university and the feds (FAFSA)?</p>
<p>Is she classified as an independent student for financial aid purposes yet?</p>
<p>The rules/polices for any aid from PA should be right on the state dept of education website. Likewise the information about any aid of that sort that is available from OH. If you can’t find the answers to your questions there, it’s perfectly OK to pick up the phone and call.</p>
<p>But here is the real question: If she won’t have time for a relationship with you while working and studying in PA, what makes you think she’d have time for one if she moved to OH? She’d still need to work and study. Take a deep breath, step back, and look at this relationship. It may be over.</p>