<p>She’s 27, and the aid is coming from the PA govt I believe. She intends to try to go to school full time while working full time. And as a long distance relationship, we rely pretty heavily on visits and what not. She’s afraid that working and going to school and studying, she wont have time to come out or vise versa, and claims that I deserve somebody that can be here for me. I just don’t want to lose her after all of this time because she goes back to school. I’m assuming there’s gotta be a way. She said if I lived with her, she would no longer be considered independent and lose part of that aid. I have a buddy willing to move up there with me but I was just hoping there was another way or that if she moved to Ohio now, she wouldn’t be screwed out of the aid that she’d need to go back to college. She also said if she moved she’d have to wait a year for residency and then money would be the issue. Blah :(</p>