<p>I do not believe that, based upon what clavical has posted on an anonymous internet chat board, we can portend the impending demise of his relationship. Although, this is a conversation that the two of them need to have… sometimes relationships run their course. Long distance relationships are particularly problematic (I know… I have been in a successful one for far longer than either of us would like. There are challenges, and particularly when you are young, they can sometimes be insurmountable.) </p>
<p>Mom2K said: </p>
<p>"Even married students are still “independent”. Her situation is even better because since you’re not married, she doesn’t claim your income.</p>
<p>That said, if her aid comes from the state of PA, then she has to live there. But, you living with her won’t change her FA status.</p>
<p>couples who aren’t married, who live together and are over age 24 are independent, and only list their own income…not the income of their SOs."</p>
<p>This is correct… your significant other may be saying these things as a way to end the relationship… she may simply not understand the specifics of FA at her university. Talk to her candidly about the issues with FA and with the long distance relationship. Regardless of the outcome it is better for the two of you to make some difficult decisions now, rather than waiting until one of you moves.</p>
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