<p>which of these is correct?</p>
<p>-"doesn't define me nor my future"
-"defines neither me nor my future"
-"doesn't define me or my future"</p>
<p>i already submitted an app with the first one :/ but now i think it's wrong...</p>
<p>I think the first one sounds best, and that’s all the readers care about anyways.</p>
<p>First one is wrong (Don’t fret too much though, admissions readers are going through so many apps I doubt they’ll notice something so minor). Second or third are both grammatically correct. Between those two I personally like how the second one sounds most.</p>
<p>ugh, i submitted it to one college with the first, which was wellesley 
crap. i hope it’s not that noticeable and that it doesn’t affect anything. i’m going with the second for the rest. thank you!!</p>
<p>I like the 2nd one.</p>