Quitting my sport

<p>Hi,</p>

<p>I'm a Junior and tennis season is about to start. I've been on JV since Freshman year and my coach told me recently that she would be putting me in Varsity but only as a benchwarmer. What this means is virtually no playtime. Varsity tennis in my school is a huge time commitment; we practice 3 hours everyday and during season we miss classes due to traveling, and I want to be able to prepare adequately for standardized testing so going home everyday at six or seven dead tired would significantly undermine my academics (not that it will drop my grades but I won't have enough time for SAT and AP testing prep).</p>

<p>Essentially, my reason for quitting is that I don't want to commit that much time at practicing but not being able to play (basically being miserable). Also, I believe that I could use the freed up time to work more on my other EC's clubs, community service, academics etc. that I think I would have more fun doing (think Cal Newport ;)). </p>

<p>However, my concern is that universities might view quitting negatively. It's not like I'm an athletic recruit prospect anyways lol, but what do you guys think? Should I avoid the misery or what?</p>

<p>Thanks! :)</p>

<p>IMO you shouldn’t do it. To be blunt, if the reason you are quitting is because you feel you are not good enough, work harder. I highly doubt your coach sets a lineup at the beginning of the season and sticks to it. Any good coach would constantly be re-evaluating his/her players and assessing their current levels.</p>

<p>Before you make a decision, weigh the pros and cons. How much do you like tennis? Do you only like competing in matches? If the answer is yes, then you probably don’t love the sport. Which means that a contributing factor to quitting is that you simply don’t like what you are doing. But if you love the sport, meaning you enjoy going to practice, you enjoy playing for fun etc., then you should continue it.</p>

<p>I understand how it feels to work hard every day and not have the chance to compete. Last year in wrestling, our team was so competitive that I didn’t make our lineup in the first two months of the season and wrestled a total of one match up until 3 weeks left in the season. However, during that time that I was not competing in matches, I worked harder, including doing two and sometimes three-a-days. With 3 weeks left, I was peaking, managed to make our lineup and win leagues. However, I knew exactly what I wanted and I worked hard to get it. At the high school level, there is always room for improvement simply by putting in more effort because the athletes themselves are not competing at an extremely high level (most likely-who knows? you could be competing against a future major champ. but i doubt it.) So if you want to play, do what you need to do to improve. Also, let your coach know that you want to get better and ask for suggestions that you can do on your own time. Initiative sits well with coaches.</p>

<p>With regards to your SAT/AP test prep: how much time are you planning on putting in daily? Weekly? If the answer is less than 1 hour and 10 hours, respectively, I don’t think that playing tennis will significantly alter your ability to prep for the tests. If its greater than that, why are you spending so much time prepping for these tests? It is one part of your application. You said that your grades won’t be an issue, and transcript is almost always more important than standardized tests. The only reason I could see if you prepped that much would be if you were self-studying for AP tests. If you are spending that much time to prep for tests that you are currently enrolled in a class for, something is unusual with the way the class is being taught.</p>

<p>With regards to your other EC’s: what are your priorities? Once again, this deals with what do you really love? If you love your other EC’s, then go for it. Just make sure you commit your time wisely.</p>

<p>So take some time to think about it. Talk to some friends, talk to your coach, talk to some teachers/GC etc… Let them know what you are thinking. Get their take on it. Don’t do what some anonymous CC-er says because he/she says that colleges would “prefer”. Do what you love, do what you think is right, and ask the people you know.</p>

<p>“It’s not like I’m an athletic recruit prospect”</p>

<p>It is perfectly fine for you to drop this sport. Lots of people drop ECs along the way in order to have time for paid work, family responsibilities, classwork, or ECs that they like better. To grownups this doesn’t look bad, it looks like you are exercising good judgement and practicing good time management.</p>

<p>I agree with both posters above.</p>

<p>This is really your call. It is quite possible that M-R four hours per day will impact your performance in your classes. If this is not the case, if your only concern is standardized tests, then you should not quit before the season. Actually you should not quit now either way. Wait until you’re a month into the season. If at that time you find that other aspects of your life such as class performance or sleep are suffereing, then you can reevaluate. </p>

<p>It is premature for you to quit until you know how the time commitment will affect everything else.</p>

<p>I’m in a similar situation as you. I am a junior, and was on JV soccer the first two years of high school, and was captain last year. I quit this year because I am just not as committed as everyone else to the sport and also have very hard classes to focus on. I joined quite a few clubs this year in my spare time that I no longer spent on soccer.</p>

<p>I think it’s fine, or else I wouldn’t have done it. But as I begin to think more and more about college I have been wondering the same thing as you.</p>

<p>Question: does the fact that I was captain make my quitting worse? And will admissions see that I didn’t just randomly join a bunch of clubs, but that I actually had more free time because I wan’t playing a sport?</p>

<p>The free time I get from quitting would be allocated to activities I have more passion/love for; like two of the business clubs I started and I could have the time to start this business me and my friend have been mulling about since last year. And I have many more activities that I actually enjoy and could pursue if given the time :)</p>

<p>^ OK, up to you, but dropping a recognized sport you’ve been doing for several years and replacing it with several unrecognized and minor ECs doesn’t actually look that promising to an adcom. 2-3 ECs pursued to verifiable excellence generally gives a better impression that 4-5 ECs which are of questionable quality and unverifiable as to quality.</p>

<p>The best thing if you <em>must</em> to drop Tennis is to focus on one or two ECs in which you really make an impact.</p>

<p>^ Yup, I’m president and founder of DECA & FBLA, two business clubs & officer for Habitat for Humanity, with this free time I can now focus on community service projects, competitions, and getting to Nationals etc. :slight_smile: </p>

<p>Thanks everyone for the advice!</p>