<p>*This is true of teachers of all races (I am fairly sure, by the way, that research has indicated that most black students are taught by white teachers), not just black teachers. The system exists because:
1. The lack of parental participation in the schools.
2. The lack of sophisticated parents participating in the schools. Parents in inner city and predominantly black schools may not have the education to recognize teachers' incompetence or may not have the sophisticated knowledge about educational systems to recognize the inadequacies of their kids' education. Unfortunately, black people as a whole don't spend a lot of time sharing information about education. This is true even of highly educated black people. *</p>
<p>My impression is as a white blue collar city dweller- is this is very accurate.
Seattle is a very tolerant city- however- it is hard to get anything done- for anyone. Its all about process- not product.</p>
<p>BLack parents dont feel welcome in some of the schools- historically, white parents are more involved, they have a different style, than black families in interacting- just my observation I am not making a judgment. BUt in working with different groups around the city, I notice that communication wise- blacks are much more verbal and louder than whites. I am getting used to it, but I can't change my style in communcating- I wonder if the black parents who are used to more interaction in their community, are put off by the more business style of the white parents- because the black parents who seem to be more involved in the mainstream groups, are the more mainstream behaving parents, but they are seen as "elitist" by some of the other parents, and they don't get involved.</p>
<p>I really wish we could have more dialogue about what is happening "now".
D school has some great programs- some great teachers and lots of great kids.
But- black parents, do not participate in the community to the extent that other parents do- many do- but many don't. Many choose other areas to do their volunteer work and that is fine, except many of these kids, really need someone who looks like them in the schools.
Turning things around is hard. I feel like black parents see all these white and asian parents tutoring the black kids- and feel like they aren't wanted.
I am in the school, and I see lots of wonderful things being done. </p>
<p>But until we really start talking about racism- not just white----->black racism- but black<---->black, asian- white-, elitism, provincialism, all the baggage that everyone of us brings to the table, we are going to keep going in circles.
I am stubborn,and that is why I still work with people who tell me that whites hate blacks, that those of use who live in traditionally white communities, think we are superior to those who live in traditionally black community, that assume that even though they are the ones with the college degrees and the big house, that my kids have it easier than their kids. I just take it as part of the terriority, I understand there is a lot of anger, but I will not become one of these white liberals- who bend over backwards to make excuses for everyone else- who if they could dye their skin they could.
If you start at line A and you want to get to level C- then you do what it takes. Period.
I used to think that the schools would do what they were supposed to do- which was educate my kid- and all I had to do was show up at open house, volunteer in the classroom, and contribute to the PTA.
Then I finally realized that , that wasn't enough, that I was going to have to quit my job, to work in the school, to try and get tutoring programs going for students, including my own. Then I realized that , that wasn't happening fast enough, that I was going to have to pay money I didn't have- take out a loan even, to pay for tutoring for my daughter. That to make up for lost instruction, she not only had to do her classwork, but the tutoring assignments as well.
But if you want to get to level C- you have to do what it takes- it isn't fair- but life isnt fair- ultimately no one cares if my daughter gets to level C but me and her. Nobody else is going to help her get there unless I drag them along with us. And yes it sucks, and yes I don't know what the heck I am doing- but that is the way it is- change starts from teh inside- I can't change anyone but myself.</p>